I think that the test for such remarks would be if the maker of same would be comfortable making them to the person in the photo, and how the person in the photo might take them. Let the makers of the remarks judge themselves on motive. As to weight, I have no idea, but she did not seem to be in distress and walked about quite a lot. If I were wearing a tenth of that amount of glass or stone beads I'd be in traction now.